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想要学生成为站直了的人,教师就不能跪着教书。

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想要学生成为站直了的人,教师就不能跪着教书

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这本书是今年年初,我在平顶山建设路上的宏图书店买的,我记得特别特别清楚。去年我读了50本书,在年底对未来三五年的规划里,我说要在三年内读完360本书。此时此刻刚刚完成十分之一。虽然我读的少,但是我买的多,今年买的书里面这本书是我印象最深的一本,书名叫做《不跪着教书》,其次是《中华人民共和国公司法》。

我买书的时候不喜欢先看书的内容,没什么意义。但是人们总是希望做任何事都有意义。意义,不就是目的吗。在我看来,人的学习是分为三种目的,也可以说有三种意义。

第一种是有目的,第二种是被迫的,或者说中性点就是为了别人的目的,第三种是没有目的的。我是介于第一种和第三种之间,比例相近吧,各半。

第一种目的是很有意义的,毕竟有目的有方向那就能按图索骥,虽不一定能达到目的,但是至少已经上路了。第二种为了别人的目的,也是比较有意义的,这个不愿意多说,各位在这个被迫的目的上感触比我深多了。第三种,没什么意义。多数人认为术业有专攻是建立在坚持、努力、一心一意之上。

比如我朋友会认为我是学计算机网络的,那就应该在这个上面发展,发挥作用。但是我总去花时间和高价格去学习其他事物上,没有意义,我读几本书就能考律师么?拿到了执照就能工作么?懂行的人知道执照三年不被吊销,可以开办律师事务所可以自己做事了等等这些东西。不懂行的人就只会想到一些现实层面的问题,其实我觉得没问题,我的目的是保护自己,还有,我也不是学计算机网络的,是我在从事和之前从事过。同时我也没有放弃坚持努力的学计算机网络,但是不能一心一意只看到这个片面的东西。这么大的世界,我不该白来一趟。单科学的好,坚持学,有用,太有用了,坚持努力一心一意可以升职加薪,也有现实上的意义。我去读医学卫士我能拿医师证么?我读消防安全我能挂到哪个公司名下躺床上数钱么?最可笑的是我收到的留言里有人说读历史有什么用,你能改变历史么……读文学你能当个作家?……在我的认知里,我认为作家应该是写自己真实经历和见解的人。专职为了挣钱的人,那是写手,不是作家。我做这些没有意义,我也认为没有意义,我愿意浪费时间浪费精力去读这些东西,我必须浪费。我介于没有意义和有意义之间,我介于有目的和没有目的之间,寻找平衡,保持一个随时能超越自己的机会。随时超越自己生命中的前一刻。借用我老师的一句话“有所得是低级快乐,有所求是高级快乐”。

说着说着又扯远了……吐槽一下发发牢骚。

买这本书而且记忆深刻的原因很简单,书上原来还有一个小封皮,上面就写着这句话“想要学生成为站直了的人,教师就不能跪着教书”。这一句话,就把我征服了。世俗的观点会认为我很肤浅,是这样的。

教育

教育,再借用我老师的一句话,“教育”分为“教”和“育”,教是知识层面的传授,育是道德、心智上的指导点拨,大概就是这个意思。我们当下的绝大多数老师,只“教”不“育”。我借用我老师的话,有一天我都会还给他,我要比他更懂得教,更懂得育。我们绝大多数的老师,在做的事情,是工作,不是教育。教育的这项事业,被定义为服务存在在这个社会上。普遍的现象就类似于当一天和尚撞一天钟,其实对这句话的误解也是非常深的,说这句话的人多数是没有见过和尚的。但是我依世俗的认知,对他们做的事情就是这样看的。在服务学生,跪着教书。在照搬知识,没有主见。在教,没育。育的事情其实也经常发生,但是是有针对性的,不是普遍性的。比如教学生不准违反纪律,育就是突破了教,进行思想上的指导和肉体上的折磨。说的有点严重了,但是出发点是好的,在这个事情上,是以合理的性质存在的,我若只教你遵纪守法,不育你认知后果,那就没用。但是问题又来了,只在少数方面进行教和育,不能在主要方面或者说是多数方面进行教和育。比如古代是有

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