首先，我不认为我是一个成熟的人，但是我觉得很稳重。
什么是稳重：
可能牵强的一种解释是这样，重是体，稳是用。我常理解为，重是价值观，稳是维系。稳重就是不忘初心，稳重没那么难，又不是稳进或稳退。维系当然没有需要维系的对象重要，所以在稳重之前，选好方向，树立价值观（建议选点别那么轻易就被毁的）。
追求
有人追求爱情，有人追求学位，有人追求财富，有人追求完美，有人追求别人，总结就是这几样功利、爱情、理想。那么大家都知道有舍有得，不管是舍在前还是得在前，都会有的。我认为这些我也可以追求的到，对我来说用争取更合适，我也会偶尔争取，但我不能丢掉我原有的真诚善良快乐，太宝贵了，这是重。我不去时常或是大力追求或争取就是稳。
开脱
因为碌碌无为而且格格不入；
所以头头是道也是呶呶不休。
我看津津乐道旁观靡靡之音；
以为滔滔不绝不料蒙蒙细雨。
内容夸夸其谈方式惺惺作态；
短浅区区之见妄图赫赫有声。
不听谆谆告诫反而振振有词；
处些泛泛之交整日沾沾自喜。
你看花花世界不处茫茫苦海；
天天耿耿于怀不如洗洗睡吧。
真诚、善良
真诚和善良的定义我想很简单，真与诚，善与良，都是好字组成的好词。
我想真诚不需假手于笔墨，善良也不须借助于粉黛。
别人可以不和我真诚，也可以不善良。我一般也不会劝他们真诚善良，我只是认为自己还不够真诚，还不够善良。既如此，那多讲一字都是废话。
快乐
对于快乐，多讲一字也都是废话。有时候我特别喜欢讲废话，但今天不想讲。
人总能找到借口为自己开脱，我想因此可能可证明我还不够真诚。
不问前程，如上。
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我永远都是那个少年
老哥稳，看好你
人生过客，路过
人生不只是追求，还有放弃，很多时候，明智的选择是迈向成功一个重要因素，选择不对，努力白费，你很真诚也很优秀！相信自己，做最棒的自己！
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