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你们的事,我早料到了

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2016-07-19 03:40

一路走来 很多人都只是陪了我一程 爱人友人最后都变成了两两相忘的冷漠 我受不了这种残忍的过程 我是一个念旧的人 也算是一个矫情的人 每当凌晨的时候感情就像泉水一样涌出来 想的本来就多 一个感性的人在凌晨总会想的更多 想着想着就哭了 酒我是喝不了了身体受不住了 也不知道什么时候开始学会抽烟了  我记着我曾经最讨厌烟味 最恶心别人吸烟 现在我变成了我最讨厌的样子 一根接一根的抽 一根比一根吸的猛 往事一缕缕过肺从嘴里吐出来 生命里每一个和我有过交集的人我都记得很清楚 我会在偶尔想起某一个人 即使我们认识的时候也没讲过几句话 但是我还是会怀念那时候我遇见的他们 后来也就不爱说话了 只是越发喜欢把事情埋在心里慢慢发酵 想着总会熬过去的 所有的偏执和鲁莽都成了独家武器 再热情的人情与世事都难以感动了 

来自本人的回复

2016-07-19 07:23

你说的这些愚兄也亲身经历过,不过虚长两岁提前三年。人生本是孤寂热闹都是强装。需要珍惜的时候你越在意,离别的时候你就越伤感,走远的时候你就越痛苦,失去之后你就越孤独,忘记之后你就越坚强!人总要学着自己长大嘛。也许这就是成长。我认为人可以没有长远的梦想,但是过一段了得有个一段的目标,然后每天都照着这个来做事情,让自己每天都操着心,没有那么多时间多愁善感,没有那么多时间矫情。好好的丰富自己的生活照顾好自己。去年马老师走的时候我说过世间之事之人之物,都有他本身的业障因果,侥幸得到,娓娓失去,凡存在,既有限期。你要知道终会散去的,我们要做的还是要珍惜在一起的时间。得不到的和已失去的才是最好的。也许明天也许瞬间你总会明白。我走的时候让你每日精进,把自己的时间用在在其位时需要尽的其职。每天都没有时间想那么多,累点吧。闲散时的体悟和累时的体悟是不一样的。总之,你说的我能明白,却没什么可以宽慰你的,你我他都要好自珍重,江湖再见。

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